Hello readers!
Today we're talking about an upcoming release for this summer which, thanks to Random House
UK, I've read in advance: The Ex Vows by Jessica Joyce. Please, be aware there will be spoilers because I can't talk about the themes discussed in the story without revealing some aspects of the book.
Title: The Ex Vows
Author: Jessica JoycePublishing Date: July 16, 2024 Publisher: Berkley/Penguin Random House UK
Pages: 484
Price: $19.00 (paperback)Plot: Estranged exes must stick close together to save
their best friend’s wedding after a string of disasters in this swoony
and steamy second-chance romance from the USA Today bestselling author
of You, with a View .
Georgia Woodward lives by her lists, none
more so than the one about her ex, Eli Mora. It’s full of the ironclad
dos and don’ts they’ve been following since she returned to the Bay Area
after their cataclysmic breakup five years ago.
With the
wedding of their mutual best friend, Adam, looming, and them about to
step into their roles as best woman and man, Georgia’s never needed it
more. She refuses to threaten their tight-knit friend group with her
messy—and still very present—feelings. The rules on that list will keep
her cool, calm, and compartmentalized.
What’s not on her list?
Eli arriving from New York with a new rule-breaking attitude or the
all-inclusive venue burning to the ground, leaving the bride and groom
in dire straits. Nor does she anticipate Adam asking her and Eli to help
him make a miracle happen. Together.
As Georgia and Eli rush up
to Napa Valley to pull off the perfect wedding, their old chemistry
comes back in technicolor. Somewhere between cake tastings gone wrong,
disastrous DJ auditions, and Eli’s heated attention, Georgia starts
recognizing the man she fell in love with before. And if she lets
herself break her rules, she might find what they’re building isn’t the
something old that ruined them—it’s a chance at something new.
Review:
Rate: 5 stars!⭐
**ATTENTION** SPOILERS
First of all, again, I huge thank you to the publisher for the free book.
Secondary, together with Funny Story
and From Lukov with Love, THIS goes absolutely at the first place of my book of
the year chart.
I've discovered Jessica Joyce last
year, when I spotted You, with a view between the summer new releases,
and I fell in love with it. It wasn't just an enemies to lovers summer trip
novel, but a story of multiple love relationships, some lost, others ready to
bloom, in a perfect picture of life: not always happy, with painful moments,
but real. I really enjoyed the depth Jessica put in her book, that's why I
asked for The Ex Vows arc, and she didn't disappoint me at all.
Even if I appreciated YWAV and this author's
writing style, I wasn't prepared to love this book SO much. Because it's so
GOOD, readers, believe me. So good I can't stop myself being emotional thinking
about it.
I honestly thought I would have read
a more light-hearted story; instead, I found something that I'll cherish in my
heart forever. I was already in love at the end of the prologue, really. As I've
already told Jessica, maybe it was just the right time to read it, but this
romance resonated so much with myself I couldn't not be affected by Eli and
Georgia's journey.
We start at a point we readers know
so well: the upcoming wedding of their best friend - and the phantomatic curse
that seems determined to ruin everything - forces the exes Eli and Georgia to
work together to save the event from an easy disaster. The main reason of their
breakup is explained in the early chapters of the book, but it hides so much
more, and we unravel it during the whole story.

From an external point of view, it's
clear as day they love each other, and while it was so frustrating seeing
Georgia pull Eli toward her and then push him away, Jessica was a master to
make us taking time to understand why the path that will lead them back to each
other isn't so easy as it seems. Because some inner wounds don’t totally heal, even
after years, and the fear to be left heartbroken again isn't easy to ignore. And
again, that’s not all. While Eli has already started a journey to be better for
himself and the people he loves, Georgia has yet to face her faults in the
ending of their relationship and her inner fears, before making another try.
I really appreciated that, after her
comprehensible anger and hurt toward Eli, Georgia gradually acknowledges she could
have reacted differently and that could have made a difference, both for her
boyfriend and herself. But they were both spiraling in different kinds of anxiety
and uncertainty and didn’t know how to get out those conditions, stop being
miserable and see the person they love the most suffering. Their walls came up
and, nonetheless they were a couple, they became lonely even before their
breakup. That until Georgia decided to choose herself over a life of
unhappiness. And my heart broke, not only because she felt she wasn’t worth
Eli’s time and attention and not enough to push his resolution to stop an
unhealthy working situation that was ruining his life, but also (and above all) for Eli's understanding her decision to escape that "dark whole" that their relationship became, at the point he didn't stop her precisely because he was choosing her happiness too, and it was with him.
How couldn’t I not love this guy?
Finally a male character who isn’t
afraid of his feeling and is so good to communicate them (underlining the
importance of therapy, of course), but at the same time always respects
Georgia, waiting for her to be ready for a real confrontation. And that’s not
all, because we’re talking about Eli Mora. He always gives Georgia space and
time to express what she wants and, most of all, he searches her consent in
every physical approach. He’s so patient with her and kind, as much as sexy in
closed-doors situation I can’t complain AT ALL – thanks, Jessica.

The surprise for me was the more I
read, the more I appreciated Georgia too. Her fierce love for her friends, her
tenaciousness to do everything she can to save Adam and Grace’s wedding, the
way she wanted to protect her group of people because she doesn’t want to make
them suffer for her (or Eli’s) choices. Someone could have just been selfish
and jump into this second chance without looking back, but it’s clear that a
part of her puts the happiness of her loved ones even before hers. And if this isn’t
already enough, her people pleaser attitude and the constant idea of not being
enough for the people she loves wrecked me, reminding to much about myself. I
could see and feel her fears to be left alone and put aside clear as mine, and
I adored how, thanks to Eli, she arrives to show this part of herself to her
friends, plus their reactions. This book has clearly one of the best healthy
friendship relationships I’ve ever read about – not to mention Adam and Eli.
Their little gestures toward the other were so sweet and true they made my
heart clench.
And then, there’s Georgia’s terror
toward her feelings for Eli. I think that what terrifies her the most was to
feel hope about her and Eli together again, just to face a reality where he would
still put work before her, back to spiraling in its anxiety, shutting her out, and
she would feel small and too emotionally dependent on him. I totally understand
it and I loved the fact that Jessica underlined the fact that someone have to
be happy with themselves first to be ok, because if there’s something wrong
(work related or not), if not faced and resolved, it could affect other aspects
of their life, relationships included. Plus, several times during the story
Jessica draw the attention to the importance of communication between partners.
Georgia wasn’t able to express her unhappiness with Eli, because she felt she
would become another burden on him so he’ll eventually leave her for someone
better as her mother did in the past. At the same time, Eli didn’t face their problems
with Georgia, focusing on keeping his job with the idea that the situation
would become more bearable in the future. They didn’t talk, really, and so the
only choice left was to break up.
Fortunately, Eli’s love for Georgia
was stronger than what they both thought.
So, it’s obvious that to overcome
all those elements, these two needed time (and tons of Eli’s patience). I won’t
tell you how the novel ends, but I can say that for once an author gave her
main characters the proper time and pages to arrive to an appropriate closure
without rush.
At last, I also appreciated the idea
of work presented: having a job is essential to live, we’re aware of that, but
it couldn’t and mustn't become our entire life. Doing something we love is also
a great bonus, and we should try new opportunities if they feel right to us,
even if they imply some changes. Who knows what they could bring us.
Aaand that’s it. Thanks again to the
publisher for this free book and Jessica Joyce for this heartwarming story. I
needed it. And then thanks to you, dear readers, if you gave me some of your
time to read this long review.
To the next one!
Chiara